Backyard BBQ Season Is Here: 8 Easy Tips for Hosting the Ultimate Summer Party on the Main Line

Summer has a way of making everything feel a bit more laid-back. Flip-flops come out, drinks get chilled, and weekends fill up with one thing: backyard BBQs. If you're planning to host one this season on the Main Line, you don’t need a sprawling estate, fancy outdoor furniture, or chef-level grilling skills. All you really need is good food, a few places to sit, and a welcoming atmosphere that encourages your friends to stick around.

Here are 8 easy tips to help you throw a BBQ your friends will remember—without stressing yourself out in the process.

1. Set the mood, not a theme

No need to go overboard with decorations. String up some lights, create a playlist that fits the vibe (classic rock, reggae, or anything that screams summer), and light a few candles or lanterns once the sun sets. That’s all it takes to make your backyard feel warm and inviting.

Bonus tip: If you’re into playlists, ask your guests to contribute their favorite summer songs ahead of time. Everyone loves hearing “their” song come on.

2. Keep the menu simple

You don’t have to go gourmet. Stick to a few tried-and-true basics—burgers, hot dogs, grilled veggies, maybe some chicken or ribs. One or two solid side dishes (pasta salad, watermelon slices, corn on the cob) can really elevate the meal. Another good idea? Create DIY food stations where your friends can customize their meals—think taco bar, pasta bar, or even a slider bar. And don’t forget to check if your guests have any food allergies or dietary restrictions.

Pro tip: Choose items you can prep ahead of time so you’re not juggling a dozen tasks once guests arrive.

3. Do the prep before people arrive

If you’re constantly running back into the kitchen or stuck flipping burgers while everyone else is having fun, you’re not really hosting—you’re just working a shift. Chop your veggies, season your meat, and set up a self-serve drink station before the first knock at the door. That way, you get to hang out too.

4. You don’t need matching patio furniture

Don’t worry if your outdoor seating doesn’t look like something out of a magazine. Mix and match chairs, throw down a few picnic blankets, or even bring out indoor stools or benches if needed. People just need a place to sit and enjoy their food while chatting. Also, make sure there’s at least one shady spot if it’s a hot day. Even if you don’t have any shady trees, umbrellas or pop-up tents can make a big difference and keep things cool.

5. Think about what the kids (and grown-ups) will do

If families are coming, set out a few easy games—think volleyball, sidewalk chalk, or a sprinkler to run through. For the adults, lawn games like bocce or giant Jenga are always a hit. And s’mores over a fire pit? Always a win.

You don’t have to plan an agenda, but having something to do keeps the energy up—and gives people a reason to linger a little longer.

6. Plan ahead for bugs

Nothing ruins a backyard hangout like mosquitoes. Light a few citronella candles, set out bug spray, and keep food covered when it’s out on the table. A small fan near the table helps too—bugs hate wind, and your guests will appreciate the breeze.

7. Don’t worry about decorations

Seriously, you don’t need them. A clean yard, some colorful napkins or paper plates, and a few fresh flowers in jars are more than enough. Nobody’s grading your hosting skills. They’re just happy to be invited.

8. Send people off with a little something (if you want to)

This is totally optional, but always appreciated: send guests home with a small snack, drink, or leftover treat. It doesn’t have to be elaborate—just a slice of pie wrapped in foil or a to-go cup of lemonade is a nice way to say thanks for coming.

Bottom line? Keep it easy.

The best backyard BBQs aren’t the ones where everything’s perfect—they’re the ones where everyone feels comfortable. Where people laugh too loud, go back for seconds, and linger long after the sun goes down.

So if you’re hosting this summer on the Main Line, don’t stress about making it picture-perfect. Just aim for relaxed, a little messy, and a lot of fun.